Red-pills and their she-toadies are at it again, spewing half-truths. The latest,

one out of four marriages are sexless.  First off, may have something to do with an aging population - sometimes, as couples get into their 60s and 70s ... health issues and such.  While i won't speak for all women, after going through the change-of-life... yeah, things are known to change as the repro system shuts down.  (And good bleeping riddance to all that drama.)

Of course, these red-pills blame the wives.  After six some thousand years...what. else. is. new :/  Never mind that the wives, coming home from full-time work...looming before them - before they're halfway in through the door - awaits the second shift.  Ya know, for starters, the breakfast dishes didn't get done because ... oh, pick any legit reason.  It's called family life - something, those child-free peeves know NOTHING about...and really need to grow the heck up, and gedda life.  Opinionated?  My blog, my space :)

Oh, and by the way - but not really ;/  Would one spouse's adultery (actual or on-line) have anything to do with the non-cheating spouse's lack of sexual desire?   Waiting for the other shoe to inevitably drop is not exactly a turn on - atleast not for reasonably normal people.  And any health conscious one with a phone, a computer, or access to hard-copy news publications, knows that adultery is, sadly, quite commonplace.  Scary too - there's nasty diseases out there.  While some are "curable," we, who don't hold medical degrees, do not know the long-term effects of treated and "cured" veneral diseases.   We medically illerate folks do, however, know that a broken leg at nine years old can, decades later, forecast the weather.  

Break's over.  Bye.

She may have been a 304 back in the day; well, that's what someone had alluded to.

Don't know, but it's possible.  The rather socially prominent lady was in upper management and married a man, a step or two above her.  Oh how's the second part of that saying go?  ..."beta" bucks.  Yep, redpills, must be a bitter one to swallow :)  You should see their house...oh. my. stars.  i believe they both attained financial success through delayed gratification...ya know, work and planning - something red-pills "talk" about.   Why i think this?  Because of an old tv and some livingroom furniture, though still in good condition; something about these items evidenced their careful climb upward during years past.  

Anyway, someone had made a statement, about her looking like someone he had seen in a certain bar (long closed) where grunge bands, drugs and fist fights were the norm.  Well, mr.gossip-monger didn't get far with these set of ears.  Didn't want to hear it, even if she indeed was the fishnet dressed woman partying in that smokey place.  

That was like 20 years ago.  Bet they're quite comfortably retired.  Probably traveling alot and having various social gatherings with family and friends.  Wouldn't be surprised if she goes all the way to NYC for her clothing, and not flinching at a 12 or 1,500 sweater.

That was an interesting sermon, heard at church yesterday. Pastor was talking

about, people don't decide to go to church Sunday morning, but on Saturday.  He was saying, if you don't schedule something, something else will horn in on the time.  Here's the interesting part: we all know that the devil wants to keep us from doing Godly things.  But we generally assume, the devil wants us, instead of going to church, to do things like smoke weed, read dirty ditties on the social media, or Dawkins' latest rant.  But the devil is way smarter than that; he knows, that even plenty of rank unbelievers can't stand the smell of pot, nor have any interest, whatsoever, in grungy posts.  Nope, the devil can, and does, keep people from the Lord's will, through getting people involved in wholesome things - like getting stuff ready for a family outing, slotting sunday morning to visit aunt becky over at the nursing home.  (Uhm, she's there on saturdays.)

Pastor's busy.  He went on to say, concerning a family thing, that "free" Tuesdays, somehow end up  captive by something.   So, what he did?  He scheduled a certain Tuesday afternoon.  

And by the way, but not really btw, people generally assume that for-real preachers are all geared up for Sunday morning - that they never, ever, entertain the notion of calling off and taking a pretend sick-day, or even scheduling ahead of time, yet another vaca day.  

Had to google these;/

"Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another  : and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching. "  Hebrews 10:25

"Elias was a man subject to like passions as we are, and he prayed earnestly that it might not rain : and it rained not on the earth by the space of three years and six months."  James 5:17

Women are more prone to emotional issues than are men. Yet i question

this centuries-old form of SLANDER, because, it just plain comes off as defamation of character.   And no, have no college of any sort, but do know that things like depression and anxiety, provoke less than wise decisions/reactions.

My question:  are stupid deeds, like getting stopped for drunk driving, getting caught breaking into the dollar store, stabbing a poker pal ?  Are these signs of mental/emotional health?  While more mental-hospital patients may be women, why have these statisticians glossed over the FACT, felons are overwhelmingly male?  We all know that most convicts ended up doing time because of a string of poor choices - the last blunder resulting in jail time.

So, why have the experts gotten away with targeting women as emotionally weak?  Sure, women commit crimes.  Things like shoplifting and prostitution.  While men's crimes are things like, setting fire to the store - just for the thrill - and putting prostitutes in the ER...for about the same reason.

Oh, here we go again...i filled out the order blank for the two dresses, and enclosed a check.

But evidently, they're not into old school payment practices.  Don't know what the problem is...actually half suspect... Seriously, why not hold the check a few days, or whatever, then upon proof that the check is good, then send the merchandise...oh, that's right, too much like customer-care.  And, perhaps, too much like sore toes - average credit card debt being in the thousands.  Wouldn't surprise me, if there's a bit of resentment activity going on in places - and maybe some ageism in the mix : ya know, ooolld people - okay boomer - off-grid spending preferences.

There's an unwritten policy which - per the returned check (there's plenty of funds in that account) - they want the consumer (customer is too old fashioned - i.e., human,  of an expression) to send their credit card info to... well, heaven only knows, upon how many websites that will appear.  Yikes!  Oh, but they have security...yeah, like i have a 23 inch waistline ;/

People tend to think that being under the bondage of consumer debt only happens to data entry clerks, janitors and nurses' aids - people who don't make anywhere near six figures.  And people tend to think, it's the lower economic classes who can't get credit cards, and must use checks or money orders.  For the most part, that's true, but there are people who make way more, and are so far in debt.  But the point is:

Encouraging the use of credit cards, while discouraging cash, is just plain EVIL.  It's along the lines of waltzing into an AA meeting, while sporting a bottle of premium jack, and uncorking the lid.

Now THAT was a hymn. "The Son of God Goes Forth to War."

First time i heard it, or even about it.  Lori Alexander mentioned it in one of her blog posts.  Went to you-tube.  Anyway, she was saying that, in too many churches, Jesus Christ is ... well, basically relegated as not manly; this slander - that's precisely what it is, slander!  Well, keeps many men far away from church. Jesus Christ being some smooth-palmed sissy...well, duh!  No wonder many men steer clear from hearing and receiving the Gospel - and go on, thinking that being a punk is manly, because that's what the everywhere grunge social darwinism tells em.  

Yeah, i get it, the Bible is quite clear, on like Page Two that Eve, not Adam, was deceived.  That's so true, not minimizing that - not for a second.  What else is true enough, but will have to search the Scriptures, is:  that, not only teenagers, but full grown men, get caught up in peer pressure.   Ya know, buy the new 60k truck, when the old one runs just fine, aw comeon, stay for another beer, have a snort...yeah, and nevermind the bank balance keeps taking a hit - while the roof's gonna need some work before next winter.

In short, the hymns that people really want to sing, are so few - even in KJB churches.  Nope, not saying a word, being silent in the church, because that's what the Bible tells women.  No issue there.  So, will pray about it - that the Holy Spirit gets with the deacons and the preacher.  Btw, the pastor and the deacons are all men - just like the Bible says.  Uhm, if the church decided to go new-agey, would be, politely, so out of there, so quick.  Pray that doesn't happen, because church shouldn't have to be a fifty freaking miles away.  There ARE people who have to travel that far, because the churches nearer to home are all fluff.

What is up with office supply cabinets, with a pitch black interior?

It's like looking for something in a dark cavern.  Who comes up with these NOT bright ideas, anyway?   The office down on 2, they have a nice cream colored cabinet: if you need a pen, or a tablet, you can actually see inside.  Anyway, just prior to our move, came up with a plan: yep, i lined the interior back and sides of that big ugly cabinet with blank sheets of copier paper.  Took some time, but you can actually see inside the stupid thing.

Well, silly me.  Was just upstairs, where all the remodeling is going on; someone needed a laptop, and some sort of connection duflinkie.  Turned a corner in that maze, and looming before me, was, evidently, a replacement supply cabinet.  A bigger  but just as ugly model.  Brings to mind that big CAVE in georgia.  Ugh!  Maybe i'll just stop at wally-world and buy a flashlight, and tie a string around the thing...

Per a recent post, yep things can change, even if there is no significant weight gain.

A certain woman, who lives about three miles from here, can still fit into a dress that she had worn during college, 30+ years ago.  Some women are like that; she has three well-adjusted, adult children...yeah, helps when a mom is able to stay home, and be a mom, and enjoy having the time to keep an orderly house, and cook real meals.

Well guess what!  Her devotion... i.e., years of unpaid labor...yep, peewee decided he no longer wanted to provide.  Not like this was sudden, peewee did have a sullen streak, all along.  Saw him in town once - and that was enough, thankyouverykindly - dude had that entitled mean look about him, oh the negativity...bluuck.  Nope, don't know the details, but this or that...that he should have cowboy'd the heck up, and took care of, but instead chose toys...  Yep, anyone with half a brain, knows the drill.   

One that starts off with, expecting wifey, at 40+ to get out there and get a career, while still june-cleavering.  Wasn't like his pay couldn't cover; his career, as a professional...yeah, six figure.  So, in a huff, i guess, he initiated the divorce.   Per another post, the average cost of a divorce is about 15k - holy hannah! 

It is CAPPED that it's better for couples contemplating divorce, to wait until the kids are grown - well, probably so, for practical sake (daycare, moving, school issues).   While 20-somethings won't take to wetting the bed, a post from an early 20s woman (about 20 years ago) speaks.  She and her boyfriend were serious, were discussing marriage, and while she wanted to marry, and later on, have children, she wasn't sure; her stay-at-home mom had been married for 20+ years...only to end up dumped, and with about no money, no sustainable job, no retirement...at 60-something, most folks don't quite have the energy (the naivety) to properly navigate the shark tank.  Red-pills whiiine about alimony.  But that, now tax-free, alimony can end... on a dime.

Per a video about 55+ communities - no, am not fixing to move into one

of those overpriced nosey-havens.  The gentleman was explaining that what you see, and what you get, aren't always the same. For one thing, the maintenance fees can wax brutal.  Another is, some neighbors can be a real pain - if your cat sneezes within 2 inches onto his or lawn ... oh my stars ;/  One very wise move, before signing or packing is :  get copies of the community meeting minutes/finance reports :  how's the $$ managed?   Are the meetings productive, or are they cliquish/shady?  

He also pointed out, these communities can be more like a geriatric junior high, where cliquish girls rule.  Oh, that's another issue - which is inline with real estate stats, more women are buying/owning homes, than men.  In some of these 55+ communities, there are about 3 women to one man.  So the gentleman wanted his female listeners to realize, 55+ville is very less likely to play out like some LIfETIME movie - "not a dating ap" were his words.  No, he wasn't making fun of old women; he was just saying...

what my grandmother had noticed, shortly after grampa passed.  They had both been very involved in putting together senior citizens' activities.  Well, weeks, months after grampa was laid to rest, grandma didn't want to go anywhere, do anything; and of course, the family grew concerned.  NO!  Grandma preferred keeping to herself, not desiring to be anywhere near six old ladies, chasing after one, maybe two, old men.  Know this, because she had happened to mention a chase scene - yep, she wanted no parts of that drama.  One thing for sure, it's only per the grace of God, neither do i have no interest in a part of that play.

Oh, especially these days.  Men don't really like us women, and get off making fun of us.  Yeah, like that hasn't been going on, over the last 6,000 years :/ , but anyway... if junior high history wants to repeat itself - in any community - am cool with it.  This time:  the Loner - and quite content with that, thankyouverykindly.

All aboard the red-pill toady train! Oh the gushing, a co-toady was going on how "tiny"

the short-dressed toady was, as she was ... basically profiling herself down the street, while single-shaming other women, who aren't married.  She was making her way, telling other women to find their own man - like every other women is fixing to horn in.  Oh, come freaking on!  Adulterous relationships seldom end well - is this rocket science?

Per the "tiny" part, was reading another post from a "tiny" woman, who had this to say, about being (rather short and quite) slender.  Here and there, throughout her life, she has found herself cramped into inadequate spaces - ya know, whenever there's not quite enough seating, at a restaurant booth, or wherever...it's as if, the other five or six people, automatically assume (or don't even consider/give a crap...) she's fine with being cramped up in the corner, or if tiny is able to enjoy her meal, while perched upon five inches of seat at the end.

And we all have been told, time and again  men prefer thin women - the thinner the better.  Thin women need less food, less fabric  - which equals, more money towards new video games, bass boats, and other such toys.   Yeah, like it takes an einstein brain to figure...

Anyway, back to toady (strutting her, from head to foot, stuff down the street).  Hope she is stashing her influencer-income, because ten years from now...uhm, things can change.  Talk to the gal, who, while younger and thinner, her husband enjoyed providing.  YEP, that changed...amazing, how ten pounds, and two kids later...

Thing is, in order to have a reasonably healthy retirement, one needs to put in a good thirty years - so, it's only smart to start and retain a job while reasonably young. Simple math : 40 + 30 = 70.  Okay, we live longer, but there's a variable.  It's something that even the boogoboo patriarchy has to deal with.  Age discrimination.  

Of course, there is also another variable, one which is also reasonably gender-inclusive.  Health.  When you get into your 60s, full-time can take more time away from other things, which also need done.  Come home from work, eat a little something, watch or read alittle something...by 7:30 or 8:00, the eyelids are getting heavy.

Anyone under 40 probably wouldn't know who Cher is: she used to be married to Sonny Bono.

Back in the late 60s they hosted the "Sonny and Cher" Show.  Their most famous song was, "I Got You Babe."   She was thin and had long straight jet black hair.  My older sister had a poster of her.  Onward into the 70s, maybe early 80s...well, somewhere along the line, the cute Married couple split up.  Sonny went into politics, and Cher continued her singing career; she did a couple of movies too.

Sometime in the mid to late 80s, she did a song quite inline with the feministic times.  It was titled, "Do You Believe In Life After Love?"  Heard it today over at the bank.  Prior to 2010, whenever hearing that song, would cop a, what's known today, as a red pill attitude : ya know, post-wall woman capping.  Prior to 2010, was still of the belief that a woman's worth depended on whether she was married, dating or not.  (Yeah, nevermind what Paul the Apostle, per permission  of the Holy Spirit, had to say - for sure, infinitly waay more important than ... well, any of our clay-potty opinions.)  Needful to say, widows are exempt from red-pill judginess, because the split wasn't about the husband finding a thinner, more "submissive" (i.e., clueless) model, who, in time, will get traded in.   Per the Bible, the wife is told to submit, and the husband is told to provide for his household (that might include wifey's widowed mom).  Oh, and no divorce, because wifey gained a wholloping 10 - count 'em, ten - pounds, over the last 20 years.

Btw, prior to 2010, didn't have much interest in what the Bible says about things.  Quite frankly, back then, was rather hostile concerning the Bible, and people who took, especially the KJB, seriously.  Hhmmm, can't help but to notice how red pills tend to either ignore, or are rather hostile toward Scripture.  Well sure, because Scripture doesn't line up with red-pill measuring games.

"For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves; but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise."  2 Corinthians 10:12

"For I would that all men were even as I myself.  But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.

I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they would abide even as I."   I Corinthians 7:7-8

Well i shoulda known, the sermon about guarding one's heart, would be restricted to not giving into things like

listening to rock n roll and smoking cigarettes, while completely ignoring far worse dangers.   And yeah, trashy music and smoking are things a child of God doesn't need cluttering up his or her life/space.  As with like 99% of preachers, he did touch upon unsavory friends and relatives.  Oh, but not a word concerning the very real and treacherous people of ones own household.

An incident yesterday.  Don't know the particulars, and don't want to know.  All's i know is, the woman just wants to do her job, and do it well, so she can continue doing what needs to be done in her household.  Btw, she has some health issues, and evidently, no wonder.  Some sort of family drama; someone, evidently, refuses to cowboy up; so, right in the middle of an important e-meeting, she had to take an "emergency" phone call.  Oh yea, she was very upset, and could barely keep her temper in check.  

Well i guess so!

Have seen this sort of shiola play out before.  When i worked on 7...the woman - you could just tell - was trying to do her job.  But of course, her mental space was cluttered with other people's drama; ya know, the same INGRATE types who'd really pitch a freak fit, if the woman (i.e., work mule) lost her job.

So, how's this all relate with guarding one's heart?  Well, if preachers would step up to the plate, and do their job...  Number One: they'd actually study the Word.  They love to go on and on, preaching about Jesus telling us to "Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;" (Matthew 5:44).  But where does Jesus, or any of his apostles - or Old Testament prophets - tell us to keep on allowing our enemies access into our personal business?  Where does Scripture tell us to keep on inviting cousin drunk-drama to our cookouts?  WHERE???   Where does Scripture tell mom to keep on looking the other way, while her won't-leave-the-nest son, or daughter, keeps a crack inventory in a bottom drawer or cupboard - along with other annoying clutter.    

Uhm, what about Scripture that tells us to "rebuke" things like dealing drugs?  Know i read somewhere in the Bible, that we're supposed to call people on their foolishness (sins).  Oh no, too often, mom, sitting under the preaching, will more or less be told, over and over again, to "deny self."  Uhm, what the heck has she been denying herself all these years?  A clutter-free apartment?  A pocketbook free from thieving grimey fingers?  

Nope.  From what she's been hearing, simply wanting a tantrum-free home-life is selfish.  It's like she's supposed to just shut the %#÷& up, and fork over the tithe - when she can barely make the rent.  And there's $40 missing from her ... wherever she keeps her money, in her apartment.  Happened before - surprised?

She hasn't been to church lately, just doesn't feel like going.  

Well, i wonder why :/

Marriage is a covenant. Thing is, there are some exceedingly wicked people, who won't let their wife, or husband, keep that covenant.

If i am not mistaken, adultery breaks that bond.  This is not a post advocating ez-divorce, it just points out the REALITY that dangerous people exist: yep, there are some soul-crushers out there, who come on real nice like, and years later, leave you completely drained - if not seriously contemplating suicide.   Just read a post from someone, who seems to get off on taking a large print King James Bible, and whacking the stuffing out of wives, especially.  WHAM, BAM, THONK...

Oh yeah, that will lead a lost soul to Christ...shure :/   

Bible thumper claims, that an abused spouse can leave - the 500 square foot dented tin can, with a leaky roof, and a slow drain in the crampy kitchen sink - but, oh, she shouldn't divorce her nabal-on-devil-dust husband.  She's supposed to remain married, while he gambles/drinks/charges her deeper and deeper into debt - at 1.75% per month on the ever growing unpaid balance.   Yeah, if wifey can't get a half sustainable job, she's supposed to live off church charity.  Shure, while she's sitting, well dressed, blogging away in a paid for, just ever so, 4,500 square foot, six bedroom farmhouse - sitting on some beautifully landscaped ten acres.

Uhm, excuse me, but there's for-real missionaries out there, in some very toxic places, who need funds.  Missionaries see things like starvation and sickness everyday, and do what they can to help.  And mrs.just-ever-so expects tess-from-the-trailer-court to remain bound to a ... demon incarnate.  IS WHAT IT bleeping IS!  Just saying...

While i was never beaten by some drunken piece of drek, or outright cheated on, or even poor, i still remember  being lost.  And so NOT willing to heed the Gospel of Jesus Christ, because Bible things always reminded me of self-righteous broads, just lounging in their spacious kitchens - as a pie (from a recipe posted in some swanky mag) bakes in a state of the art oven - habitually one-upping their poor neighbors.  Nope, for decades, wanted about nothing to do with church, hymns, Scripture.

Still remember how that feels.

Back in the early portion of Chapter 6 of Genesis,

people got so nasty, that getting over on other people was all they thought about.  Well, have heard it said, among creationists, and others, that the population was probably like in the billions back then.  But was it?  After all, when a society becomes so debased, things like working a job - without  causing drams - being straight up with  customers, saving money, getting for-real married and raising children...such pursuits get tossed out the window in favor of partying and grunge bling.   In such a society, where blatant wickedness is the much celebrated norm, babies are an inconvenience; and women who have them, are regarded as being weak and stupid.  In a primate-eat-primate world, it's every man (and woman) for himself.  

Meh, sort of sounds like today: bet in Noah's time, people were way more selfish.  Wouldn't be at all surprised, if the music back then, made the grunting that sh*ts out of our radios today, sound like lawrence welk and slim whitman melodies; after all, Genesis 6:5 says "...only evil continually..."  

Elsewhere in Scripture, in the New Testament, have read that the Lord will return, when things get really nasty "...as in the days of Noe..."  (Luke 17:26)  Didn't have to Google - yee haw :)

Anyway, taking a look around, it's like men and women are increasingly becoming hostile towards one another - men started that red-pill shiola, and women, being, by the Lord's design, are followers.  Well, guess what!  More women are following mgtow principles; women are choosing to NOT marry, and when they do marry, some are getting a prenup - which, by the way, average 3k, per individual; it's recommended that you get your own lawyer.  Some women, choosing to remain single, aren't even inviting their lovers to their house, and are withholding where they work, what they do.  It's like, any information that's even remotely personal, no go - sadly, smart move.  As for kids, it's like most the planet is near or below replacement levels - women are choosing to not risk their financial/mental/emotional AND physical wellbeing on that most thankless, and very despised, job - motherhood.  Can't blame these gals...they have moms, grandmoms, aunts, sisters, co'workers, friends ...  Heard it, and hear it, way too much; men are ... untrustworthy.  So not worth the risk.

Yep, all this empowerment/education signaling, i think the underlying reason is: women just plain old don't feel safe being around men - let alone financially dependent upon a man, especially with children in tow.  Yeah dudes, we gals may be flaky and all, but we ain't completely brainless.

Oh, and speaking of red-pills' relentless scoffing and railing at women...well, for no better reason for us gals being gals.  These red-pillers gleefOOly gaslight us into believing women's risk-aversion is weakness.  When in reality, women's NEED for security is because our bodies were designed to take care of children.  It's hard for mom to patiently teach her three year old basic reading comprehension skills, when mom's not sure if there will be food, or a roof, come the day after tomorrow or next month.  

Well, taka good guess who designed people?  Yeppers, red-pillers, go tell the Lord himself what a sorry-arse job He did, at creating women.  Yep, just step on up there, and write Him up...as if the Lord is the dumbest data-entry clerk in the office.  Good luck with that.  Meanwhile, think i'll just skedaddle...in case one of those rp bozos happens to live nearby, and decides to march right up, shake His fist at the Lord and tell Him off.  

"And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually."  Genesis 6:5

"And as it was in the days of Noe, so shall it be also in the days of the Son of man."  Luke 17:26