Tuesday, March 15, 2022

Are you kidding me? A "Better Bachelor" video popped up, and he was going on about

slightly-below average soon-to-hit-the-wall women chasing chads, then getting a real snow job - dumped after being "plowed" a few times.  Well, duh..?  He was going on about, something like 90% of women chasing like 10% of men.  So evolutionary...there you go...in a world without Christ.  You all can have at it :/ Anyway, let's just say, for argument's sake, what he's saying is at least partially true; then what he's saying is, most women are really stupid.  But that's only the half of it.  The "average" men ... ya know, the guys who plow our streets, fix downed power-lines at 3 am, during high winds AND sleet...yeah, those guys...  He goes on saying how average guys basically get left out.

Get left out of what?  Drama - and medical surprises - that's what.  Seriously, while Chad-chaser is young and really hot...yep, here we go again with the evolutionary bs.  Frankly, i have a difficult time believing that most young women are out there selling themselves so dirt cheap.  Granted, back in the 70s and 80s, there were "those kind of girls," but most the girls had steady boyfriends, and were interested in a possible future of marriage and children with him.  Have things devolved that much, over the past 40-some years, to the point where seven reasonably attractive women are chasing one perfectly sculpted chad - who looks like a ... a three dollar bill?  

Maybe i'm just old, and need to get out more.  Oh i think not :)  Wading in a cess-pool..?  No thanks.  Frankly, can't help but to think, being "old" is but one manifestation of the Lord's restraining grace.

Saturday, March 12, 2022

Yippee yahoo, driveway's done. Now all that needs to be shoveled are the mailboxes, but

they can wait.  No mail on Sunday :)  Been at this for four hours, and am done.  What made the shoveling tedious was...well of ccouurrrsee it had to ra-ra-raaiinnn a bit, before the snow came through.  And neither does it make things easier with the wind.  Weather, ugh!  So, the mailboxes can wait.  What can't wait: is the car, need to get the snow off of that, because the temps are going down.

On the, sort of, lighter side of wintry weather, are the excuses lazy people make.  Like, why shovel, because it will drift shut?  Uhm, maybe in the dakotas and alaska, but here in the mid north east, shoveling a wide path, right off, goes a long way.  Lazy people will also say, why shovel when the storm is still going?  Well, probably, in big-time snowy states, lazybones may have a point - but i doubt, snowy states have many lazy people.  In those states, and a few others, a two-foot dump of snow is about business as usual - and if you haven't bothered yourself to be prepared...that's not good.  

On a break from the shoveling. Sure could wait and finish tomorrow, but

when snow sits, it gets hard - if not frozen.  But try and explain that fact of winter weather to a lazy person...yeah, good luck with that.  The storm that came through January 7th was about typical for a significant winter storm; there was 6 inches.  Having a long driveway, it took about 10 hours worth of shoveling.  Any more than the normal 6, will just call for a plow.  i have one of those ergo-shovels, which is basically a manually operated mini-snowplow - otherwise, uh, no way could i handle a some 100 foot driveway.  And there's other shoveling:  the walkways, the concrete pad, and a wide path down to the pole-barn and woodshed.  

Thankfully, dan'l-boonin is not primary source, just a backup, to take the chill out - that is, if there's not noreaster/high wind activity.  Of course, when working outside, gives me a chill when coming inside.  Later on, when the low pressure/winds are out of here, will lay a fire - in the meantime, there's something called warm clothing.  

And yeah, it's not easy to find warm, practical feminine clothing.  Oh yeah, for sure, there is a reason for that - can ya spell "up draft from below!"  And it smells like rotten eggs.  But that's another post.

Anyway, time to get back, want to get done. 

Holy patolie, gas sure went up. The middle grade is about $4.50 a gallon.

No, wait, think it was closer to $4.60; the hightest was $4.95.  Last time i got gas was two weeks ago, and i think the middle was $3.85.  Good thing winter is on it's way out; can only imagine what fuel oil runs - i use electric, which isn't cheap either, but it doesn't leave a nasty film on your walls.

Anyway, think i have an idea where these insane gas prices will lead, come next winter.  As in back in the 70s, people came up with the bright idea of playing dan'l-boone - wood stoves.  Yep, our grandfather's, who worked themselves into early graves, in order to PROVIDE their wives and children with drama-free heat, are probably saying, what the heck??

Here's the reality in boone-ville.  First off, burning wood is not necessarily cheaper than fuel oil or electric.  Firewood-Planet does not cut, deliver or stack for free.  So, if you do all that yourself, you'll need a reliable backroads vehicle, chainsaws, spare chains, a place to store it - forget about outside under tarps, the wa-wa wwiiinnnddd will blow those things off...late at night or while you're at work.  

And, of ccouuurrssee, it will either be raining, or will be raining.  So, build a shed fred, and build one big enough to bring in a dolly, and be able to keep separate the wood that was cut last year, from that which was cut the year before.  Actually, unless you cut in the dead of winter, and even so, it's best to only burn wood that is seasoned for two years; one year doesn't always burn well.  

The stove itself isn't cheap either, and will need yearly maintenance.  And be sure to keep an eye on the weather, because it's no fun bringing in wood when it's dark and slippery out.  

Yep, playing pioneer is also time-consuming.  After all the cutting, stacking, lugging logs into the house, there's the extra dust and grit to be swept after.  Oh wait, then there's the ashes to lug outside.  Best to empty early and often, because ashes left to accumulate, means more live ones.  Also, empty then from the ash bucket, into a metal can with a lid - one solid enough that it won't tip over during high winds.  Also, unless your stove is connected to a real chimney - which also needs maintenan$e - burning while there's high winds?  Makes you wonder, what's the point!

And finally, the fun part.  When those nasty noreasters roll in, your stove will probably back-draft and fill your house with smoke.  Then you'll have to open doors and windows.  So now, you're house just got a few degrees colder, and be sure you had previously shut your bedroom clothes closet.  As for your raincoat, hanging on a peg in the back room, that will need the smokey smell washed out - as if you don't have enough laundry to deal with, as it is.  Best to not use the woodstove during storms...sometimes have to wonder, then what's the point!

Point is:  grandfather knew all about the woodburning bs.  That's why he put in all those extra hours, and had drama-free central heat put in.  

Oh, by the way, one of my late husband's buddies had recalled, during burning season, of every morning, before school, having to go out, in the cold/wet and dark, to lug in logs - needless to say, he wanted no parts of woodburning--period!  Yell it and tell it, Tony!

As for pellet stoves, don't know too much about them, except they are electric dependent.  Sounds like dan'l-boone lite bs.

Sunday, March 6, 2022

Spring is on its way, yaay! While working in the yard yesterday,

was nipping brambles and small branches.  Inside, just beneath the bark, had noticed greenish sap.  This wasn't present two or three weeks ago, while out doing the same.  Yeah, wanted to get as much done before the bramble stuff starts growing.  Also, while taking a break, felt a breeze - it was a spring breeze.  All's i can say is, yay!  Maybe it's an age thing, but this winter was a cold one - felt that way.  

Friday, March 4, 2022

Sounds like "growing in grace." Over at Lori Anderson's "Transformed Wife Blog" is an article from Debi Pearl.

"third woe (the rules have changed" is on my sidebar.   She has noticed changes over the past 20-some years.  When she started her ministry (not preaching from the pulpit, just writing articles/books that people can choose to read - or not read) her focus was more about wives getting fussy over husbands leaving their dirty socks in the livingroom.  But she has noted, marital conflicts are going way beyond the normal livingroom waste basket not having been emptied or toothpaste globs left in the powder-room sink.  

Tuesday, March 1, 2022

"Forgiveness Trap," Pastor Mike Ragan. Terrific sermon, it's at the sidebar.

And woah, he preaches from the regular King James.  Basically, he describes how mean people enjoy being mean, and then twisting Scripture, whenever someone calls them on it.   Most churches gloss over the reality of wolves (sociopathic people) in the church, and the drama they enjoy creating.