A tragedy, plain and simple - one or both of the parties f-a-I-l-e-d, failed! Leaving, of course, a fine example for young people - not only in the home, but in the community as well. (Yeah, in a sense, it does indeed "take a village to raise a child.") And another thing, marriage isn't just some job - which after 25-30 years, give a 2-week notice, and bail out. Hhmm, that statement...any wonder, one or both dun quit.
Tragic, plain and simple, because even if the kids are grown - AND are successfully employed - they've been both defiled and defrauded. Oh sure, they're likely to say it's okay, but sooner or later, the repression (of how they really feel...) will manifest in one or more unhealthy forms - booze, drugs, sleeping around, alot of mistrust and/or general weirdness.
Tell me those motivated, successful 20-something kids don't think about childhood memories...and question, "Was it all a lie?" So, kindly take that (wilted) bowl of word-salad and please cram it...in the nearest rabbit-hole. Thank you ;) (See, i'm bein' nice.)
Divorce happens. Sadly not all are compatible. Sorry for the loss of your husband but for some the marriages end far before the spouse dies.
ReplyDeleteDear Peeps, thank you. i knew his strength was leaving him, but i figured we'd have like another two years together...guess not.
DeleteYes sorry your husband had to go through that. I feel for you. :'(
DeleteDear Peeps, yep, there are marriages that never were, and really need to end. While churchian-droids point to their fave you-can't-ever-divorce Scriptures, funny isn't it, they completely gloss over the multitude of Scriptures urging people to get away, and stay away, from the wicked - because their nastiness will rub off, sooner or later.
ReplyDeletehttp://fivehundredpoundpeeps.blogspot.com/2020/06/but-i-love-my-abusers-anna-v-of.html
DeleteCheck this article out. if anything most of the love is pushed for the wicked. I wanted to throw up reading this book, as the complicit with evil and love for the evil was promoted considering what happened to the victims within it. Yeah the you can't ever divorce stuff is used to oppress women and control them keeping them forever trapped with brutes or telling ones who do get away they are fated to a life alone, else they can get away. As for the wicked most of the conservative churches are teaching submission to them. This is what I am talking about in articles like this.