The "wall" comes for men too; much later, of course, but a wall is a wall. Here's the deal though,

when the wall comes for the early 30s woman, she is still young and energetic enough...she has quite a few years to adjust to living on her own, as a fully functioning adult - to cultivate productive money-saving habits.  She has adequate time to get her own house in order - so, in her later years, she and her kitty kat can enjoy the 3,000 square feet, and a few acres, debt-free space.

Until, basically an hour ago, per a video interview of a 50ish man, the things he said, reveals that players played out, have a whole different set of problems before them.  While 30-something wilma's clock ticks away upon that cutsie little stand next to her computer; 50-something pete-player-still-wannabee's clock is going like that big contraption they have on the square, in front of the bank.

Thing is: it's one thing to make important changes at 30...and so another at 50, or 60.  While post-wall women generally have family and friends in their lives, still-wannabe-players generally do not.  Such is life when the kids don't come around - and why should they?   Considering those needless hard candy holidays, while baby-daDUH was out and about...buying another round.

And now??  Yep, played-out is looking for a thirty or fortyish wife.  His health is not the greatest, and his finances are bout bordering on life support - wouldn't have anything to do with std/booze fallout, would it??  Anyway, to hear him go on, yep, it's still all about him; he's looking for a nurse and a maid, in one (gucci, even a stone mountain) parcel.