"What's the leading cause of divorce?" Mr.C. raised that question in family relations class - back in the days when tablets

were made of stone.  One of the students raised her hand said, "sex."  Back then, probably less than an appropriate answer, coming from a high school girl.  But hey, go back another century, and she probably would have been a new bride.  Anyway, the teacher gave the "correct" answer.  Financial difficulties.  He had also mentioned that home buyers had a lower divorce rate - but that's for another post.  Thinking back, just short of a half-century...perhaps that girl was right.  As for money-issues, more often than not, such are like a cut in the hand, which the injured person doesn't bother to clean (which just plain HOITS!!!) and bandage.  And ya have to ask, how did the cut get there; did bozo/bozoette not bother to don a pair of work-gloves?

While the mgtows blame the women, blame eco-system plastic - while gobbling up fast-food, and preeech personal accountability, they run past - and run fast - away from the neurological reality, of what booze, drugs, gaming, gambling, and pr0n does to the brain.  Besides putting a damper on, actually getting out there and accomplishing something, the foolishness slouches a naturally hard ;) into ... pua, more like "bubble gum."  (Shout out to the divorced lady who used that description :)

Meanwhile, any marriage counselor - whose cert came from other than the back of a cereal box - will tell you, if the sex isn't good, for both husband and his wife, there's big trouble in that marriage, or will be down the line.  And yeah two eighty year olds aren't likely to be chasing each other around the bed...or wherever else ;)  

The greatest mgtow, the Apostle Paul (though he wasn't going his own way, but the LORD's way) said - per nothing but inspiration from the Holy Spirit himself - was, that the marriage bed is undefiled.  In other words, if the husband and wife are all grungy and dirty from pulling up carpet - in their home - and well, look at each other and take a fancy ... uhm, right there...  Am saying, it's not just the wife who is constrained by victorian prudery - that's spelled hypocrisy.    There's, i'm sure, more than a few constricted husbands.  

i am not, and never was, into anything weird, (that sort of shiola is rank satanic..case closed) per another room, my having so much as alluded to ... my late husband actually said to me, in not too many words, more along the line of: "nice women don't."  Well that comment shure shut me back in victorian land.  Major bummer, because my late husband was good looking as all get out.  Even when he took sick (and, ... that wasn't on the table...or anywhere else) he was still one manly man.

But anyway, married s3x is important.  If the intimacy is honest, then there's a very high probability the couple will figure something out, concerning that freaking insane school/property-tax hike.