Back in bad old days, when the wedding vow included that scary, scary four-letter word

yikes, for the bride, beginning with an "O."  Well guess what else was in the vow?  Didn't know this, until having listened to two separate Dave Ramsey broadcasts.  But anyway, the husband vows to share/bestow all his worldly goods.   In other words, while the bride promises to obey the groom; he promises to provide for her - and not hold back for his ba$$ boat, fi$hing rod, football season pass (for one) ... while wifey gets stuck wearing second-hand clothing.  Nope, that vow means, buy the gal some decent duds, and give her enough household money; and if he can't afford two tickets to vaca wherever, then he also stays home. Hear the red-pills spew, the very first thing on their minds is hording their marble$.