"Eighty percent of divorces initiated by the wife." Had questioned, how much

of this percent involves substance abuse (boozing/drugging) and its related consequences of job loss and things not being maintained - ya know, wifey gets home from work, and has to mow the lawn, because it's gonna rain tomorrow.  Also, in the 80 mix, had wondered how much of the 80 involves pron - and OH, its vile branding upon the mind.  Btw, it's been only recently, that i had learned that pron does damage men's minds - i had always thought dirty pics didn't harm men, and that the only reason such needs STOPPED is for the sake of women and children...ya know, the vulnerables, the social/evolutionary less fit.  Being sarcastic here, folks - though it is quite true, women and children ARE weaker.

Got beef about that?  Well, just boldly march into the Lord's throne room, and tell Him, he's an incompetent jerk - that He shoulda created ...   Oh, you don't believe in the Word (Jesus Christ)?   Mmkayy, have at it...yikes.

Anyway, what i forgot about, concerning the 80% was, what's the percentage of wives who decide to end it, because her husband has stepped out...again?  And yeah, i get it, boys be boys.  But the thing about having side bootay is the risk of veneral disease being brought to the Marital home.  How is the cheating husband to know - while he is vacationing with his wife and kids - if his mistress is obediently sitting in her small apartment during weekends and holidays?  Hey, if the young honey, has any brains - or backbone...

But here's the deal.  Guys claim, it's just sex, "she (the side) don't mean nothing."  Well, that's telling!  In other words, the guy is USING another human being.  If a guy is going to deceive his wife/girlfriend/side babe...uhm, why stop there!  Why not pull a fast one on a co-worker, a customer or even the Boss?

Want to continue being around such a person...waiting for the other shoe to drop??