First link to this blog. An extreme case? Maybe. But certainly a caution

to ALL women... Oh yeah, you can love him, and you can trust him...up to a point.  In the article, the husband was obviously a devil. And the poor lady didn't  know it. And yeah, not all men are like that.  But wicked men do exist.  And evil hides, evil lies.  She was a good wife to him, and what does she get?  Totally kicked in the teeth, that's what.  Sisters beware.

i have a small savings, and my late husband had his eye on it.  i call that little bit my boundary...was the principle of the thing.  Shared my wages, my time.  But that? Uh-uh, dat's mines!  i got up each weekday morning, and went to work for that.  And frankly, i shoulda been a little more selfish...in a  bit of a jam right now.

Women are by nature, not real smart when it comes to living in the world-as-is.  Actually, the only women who aren't house-plant stupid about the world-as-is, are the purple-haired feminists.