And yeah, i understand why more and more are choosing to remain childless

We all know the drill:  mom, married or single, ends up more like a work-mule.  And then is shamed for losing her youth/beauty - doesn't help, of course, being told, over and over again, to serve, serve, serve...and to expect to keep, even a modest portion of the money she earns, at her full-time job, for herself...oh no, that's selfish.  So, what ends up happening is: she ends up old before her time, and - oh horrors, overweight, and generally, ragged looking.  Needless to say, her husband starts looking elsewhere - but still expects hummers (ya know, totally one-sided s3x...and worse yet, not Biblical).  Bjs are what the dudes of sodom did to each other - among other eckky things. Eighty percent of divorces initiated by wives??  Not hard (yeah, that's a booze and drug issue) to figure.