Just hate spinster-shaming. Back in the day, an unmarried 30-something woman was likely single because,

for having committed the bigtime sin of having been less than physically attractive.  Not all women are miss america.  Back then, few women were obese; if you've ever pushed a 1960s vacuum cleaner, those things are heavy - and women used to lug those things up and down stairs.  Irons were heavy too, and there was alot of ironing to do.  Cooking was done with cast iron skillets.  Houses were tiny, families were large, and housework was constant.  So, no time or space to gain scores of pounds.

Being a plain jane is not a willful crime, it just happened to be the situation for some women, in a day when cosmetic surgery was not available,  or way too expensive.  But the gender brownnosers of the time would victory dance around the homely girls, and flash their engagement/wedding rings.  The saying is true, women can (and usually ARE) their own worst enemies.  Of course, there were, and are, women who had been in a relationship that didn't end well; so, these gals decided, they were done.  Ya know, trust issues - can ya blame 'em?  Oh, but the gender brownnosers do...any reason to blame-game, evidently.

And ya know what?  High time for that sheet-show to STOP!  Hey girls, men really don't like us women; so, what's the point of kissing up to people, that no matter what you do, how much you try, it will never be enough - and how little you ask, in return...well, too much.  You'll never be acknowledged as ... well, a human?