Seen it play out a few too many times ... am talking about the elephant in the room,

that we dares'nt talk about.   Oh so want to post some very politically incorrect stuff, but am at least smart enough to know, it's best such a post goes into my paper diary - if that would ever get read, i'll likely be in a big-box, six feet under, by that time.  The topic deals with ... well some folks are better at (reasonably successfully) navigating through the rat-maze than are others.  But, 'nuf said.