Friday, December 4, 2020

Oh brother, another gray divorce, to happen in early 2021. A family-member of a lady at work,

was saying, the couple had been married for about 25 years.  And taka good guess what broke the covenant!  Yep, pee-wee was caught with a piece of take-out chicken.  So, here wifey - if she wants to keep the house, will have to get a mortgage for half its value.

Ee-yep, wifey wasn't the one who stepped out, and she's being punished - at early 50-something - with a what?  Like a fifteen (count 'em) year mortgage - cha-ching!  That's what.  Why, she'll be about in her early 60s before the thing's paid off - hopefully, she has a good job, and can get that out of her hair, alot sooner.  

It's a really good idea to have atleast some savings for later life.  In fifteen years, social security pensions may be getting cut by about 15 or 20% - their information tells ya, the laws can change (for the worse) from budget to budget.  

Sad to say, but it's a really, really good idea for women to have marketable skills - to atleast have documented experience with excel and word - better yet: a college degree - because you never know, things change, people change.

Sounds feministic?  Maybe!  But here's the reality:  as annoying as feminists can be, feminists are well aware of how things can, and do, go in the world-as-is - as opposed to the world as-wished-for.

2 comments:

  1. Hmm the fundamentalist Quiverfuls like the Duggars want their daughters left uneducated and permanently unemployed. What do you think will happen if one is widowed or divorced--the man could leave them and go cheat. No job. Parents don't live forever. The fundamentalist Christian answers for women to never work, are absurd and are a surest way to the poor house. Look at me and my husband and how poor we were with educations. You think a Duggar illiterate is even going to pull off online transcription? Nope. No SSDI either for a woman whose never worked, SSI is far less money.

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  2. Dear Peeps, the churchian cults have reality issues. It's like they also forget that "fruitful" comes before "multiply." Now granted, i could be wrong (oh, imagine that ;/) but "fruitful" seems to cover alot of territory, besides just making babies. Pee-wees who stuff their wives and their multiple children into a tiny dented trailers, don't strike me as Fruitful

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